My wife and I are very busy with both of our jobs, and both working for high-profile companies we often have to attend meetings across the country. As a result, we don’t always known when we’ll see each other, and it can be a real hassle trying to organize time together – for both of us it is often a point of contention, and we get really frustrated.
Of course, we try to keep in contact as much as possible, and in this day and age having access to the internet and cellphones makes that process a lot easier. At the same time, there is always something missing. The intimacy can only go so far over the phone.
The Kiiroo Onyx is a new generation of Fleshlights which can be used interactively with the female part of the Kiiroo set which is used by the woman at the same time.
The Kiiroo Onyx As The Next Phase
My wife was the one who suggested looking into the Kiiroo Onyx, and I was a little suspicious but willing to try anything that would help to rekindle our romance. But what surprised me was the fact that the Kiiroo Onyx as part of a set – while it’s a pretty standard male masturbation device, it works with a corresponding dildo called the Pearl which my wife can use. The two devices connect via Bluetooth, and The way it works is through a complex array of sensors.
When my wife is pleasuring herself, sensors on her dildo are sent to my Onyx and translated into very realistic sensations – conversely, the harder I use my Onyx and the faster I jack off, those gestures are sent to her dildo so can experience what it’s like to have me deep inside her, pushing against her G-spot.
I have to admit, it took a little bit of getting used to, but after our first session we were both completely satisfied with the experience. The package comes with a free communication app that allows two-way visual and audio. Now, of course, you can just use a third-party connection or app like Skype, and on occasion we do – but the beauty of Kiiroo’s app is the knowledge that our sessions were completely secure. You get an alphanumeric password that the other person has to use to enter a private chat room; after we were ‘finished’ (and my wife has some very wet and loud finishes) it’s a simple matter of signing out. No harm no foul.
A First Time Masturbator User
I’ve always been a pretty traditional person when it comes to sex and masturbation, but it was really quite staggering how quickly I adapted to the use of the Onyx. Not having much experience with sex toys, I did some research, and discovered that Onyx kind of sets itself apart. The unique compression sensors in the Onyx imitate the actual contractions and muscular movements of a real vagina, and with a little lube it becomes incredibly accurate in terms of sensation.
It is also versatile, so you can use it discreetly by yourself or with a partner. During those times when we were so busy that we can’t even connect via internet or phone, it is still possible to power up the Onyx – again, it took a little getting used to because the outside has a touch control device that monitors and adjusts the vibration and contraction of the device. That was my biggest peeve, is that if you’re not accustomed to this sort of interface, and you reach a point of no return, it can be hard to control. My fingers were slipping all over it. That said, with a little practice, I’ve managed to gain a tighter rein on its control and can temper my orgasms at this point.
Safe, But Expensive, The Kiiroo Is The Perfect Answer To Long-Distance Intimacy
I’m still not a huge fan of sex-toys, and I will always prefer the tight dripping pussy of my wife to an electronic device, but as far as remote-controlled stimulation and sex is concerned I can’t imagine now using anything other than the Kiiroo Onyx – and that’s because it doesn’t feel as ‘selfish’ as using a traditional Fleshlight or other male masturbator.
Being able to connect to another device, so that you’re sharing the experience, and helping each other reach a healthy and productive climax. One of the settings also allows the other person to take control of the Onyx, so again as far as improving communication and the sense of an emotional connection, there’s nothing better for either me or my wife.
When we end up seeing each other again, we don’t have that awkward period of readjustment and trying to relearn each other’s rhythms, which was something that we were always both keenly aware of, and made it very stressful. Because we are able to retain some sexual intimacy even when we’re on other sides of the country – or the world – our sex now is even hotter than it was before, and she comes so hard that I have to literally hold her to keep her from writhing off my cock.
And I have to attribute this to the Onyx. Having the opportunity to continue to learn each other’s preferences, and being able to see each other via the two-way communication so we can anticipate what the other person likes or doesn’t like, has a strong component of application in real sex. I’m not sure I could say that for other male masturbator devices; especially considering that Kiiroo is looking forward to upgrades in the future, so there is the possibility for some interesting new features and variations of experience.
The one downside to the Onyx (aside from the touchy control panel) is the price – it is definitely more expensive than conventional sex toys, however you also have to take into consideration what you’re getting for your buck. With the online component, the two-way interaction, and the added bonus of having the two-way secure communication app thrown in for free, it is definitely a worthy investment.
We’ve known some couples that have purchased just the Pearl, but there really is no replacement for having a connected set – and generally speaking, Kiiroo is very good about offering special deals when you buy both the Onyx and Pearl together.