Because both my husband and I have very busy lives and we both work in marketing firms that require us to travel to meetings, it can be really tricky for us to find the time to re-engage. This problem is only compounded when we both have travel meetings, and eventually we both realized that our love-life was suffering because of it. We would talk on the phone as much as possible, and even experimented with phone sex and Skype, but it just wasn’t the same – I’d heard of long-distance sex toys, and was a little curious about how, or whether, they’d be able to live up to their hype.
Kiiroo Pearl Helps To Maintain Long Distance Relationships
That said, it was Kiiroo’s Pearl that really helped to satisfy me; there are very few products out there that allow sexual stimulation via Bluetooth or remote control, and the idea of giving control of my orgasm at a distance to my husband seemed a little strange at first, but we were willing to try anything. I have to say, I was not disappointed – in general, the Pearl appears as any other dildo, and I’ve had a few over the years so I had some high expectations.
Amazingly, the Pearl has 9 vibration settings, which really surprised me, and allowed for a lot of variation and experimentation: once you download the chat platform, it’s possible to use it as you would a normal dildo if I’m by myself for example, or I can “hand off” control of the vibration settings to my husband and let him control it.
Perhaps the best part of the Kiiroo Pearl is the fact that it is designed to synchronize with the Onyx, which is the male equivalent device. My husband took some coaxing to get him to actually consider it, but once he started he was actually begging me for more late night sessions. The way it works is that when I am pleasuring myself with the Pearl, the movements are translated into equable sensations in his device, so in many ways it feels like we’re actually fucking.
High Tech Fantasies
We can both turn up the vibrations or the intensity as we go, and for me I really enjoy having the secure communication package – it works with most computers, and was actually less glitch than my version of Skype, so I could watch my husband (and he could watch me) when we were both getting close. I am sometimes a bit worried when using non-secure internet or third-party apps, so it was a relief to find that Kiiroo included their free program with the purchase of a Pearl. You get a special passcode, and then you can send that to your partner so that your one-on-one room is secure.
Back to the secure server, I also liked the fact that once you got your alphanumeric password and signed in – and after we’d both exhausted each other silly, masturbating one another to an explosive climax – it was a simple matter of signing back out. The session ended completely, and we were both secure in the knowledge of our privacy. I also thought I should talk about the Pearl itself – as mentioned, I’ve gone through a number of dildos over the years, so I’ve become a bit dubious every time I encounter a new one.
The beauty of the Pearl is its simplicity. Granted, there are some high-tech dildos out there that have a huge variety of functions and methods of stimulation, but sometimes it can feel like you’re trying to handle a Swiss Army knife there are so many elements. In contrast, the Pearl is seek and perfectly balanced to hit the G-spot, but still has a lot of technical capability. In order to match up the sensation of having it inside me and translating that to my husband’s Onxy, it has a sensors throughout the shaft.
And it feels bloody good, let me tell you – the first time I used it by myself, trying to ‘break it in’ before I experimented with my husband, I came almost immediately and gushed all over my sheets. My clitoris was literally swelling with lust, and my husband was a little taken aback but how turned on I was when I called him up and told him to go online now because I wanted him to talk dirty to me.
Safe And Easy To Use, The Kiiroo Pearl Is The Top In The Industry
Being made entirely of non-allergenic silicone, it’s got a great natural feel to it, but it’s also easy to wash especially if you’re a “squirter”. In general, I have to give credit to Kiiroo’s Pearl for managing to balance functionality, innovation, and affordability – granted, it’s a bit more expensive than your every-day dildo, but the fact that it can connect to other devices in real-time, and from a personally biased standpoint the fat that it has managed to save my love-life, makes it all worth it.
In fact, giving into this sort of remote control technology, but still having that personal connection via their communication app, has actually improved our sex when we finally get back together again after being apart. In part because the Kiiroo Pearl (and the Onyx) aren’t exclusive to long-distance application: a number of times we actually tried using them while we were in the same room, and there is still all the eroticism. He particularly enjoys watching me masturbate, and while I control the actual insertion and the pressure on my G-spot, he can control the intensity of vibration, and it becomes a very sympathetic process.
So, while the price tag may discourage some – and the idea of long-distance stimulation may discourage others – it really is a novel experience, and can really spice up even the most experimental relationships. After the first or second use it feels completely natural, and you might even find yourself getting wet just looking forward to those late night sessions when you’re both on other sides of the country.
