Keeping It Real… As Possible
For a number of years my partner and I have had conflicting jobs that require either one or both of us to be away from each other for long stretches at a time. It’s been tough to try and keep the romance alive when separated by long distances, and though we’ve experimented with phone sex it was never quite the same.
Max is an interactive fleshlight for men who live in long distance relationships with their girls. The Lovense set consists of this fleshlight and a vibrator for the partner, called Nora.
Then a friend suggested Lovense which produces long-distance remote control sex toys. I’ve always been a little suspicious of sex toys in general, because it’s always struck me as being a little dishonest or somehow artificial.
Nevertheless, we were both willing to give it a try. I was surprised to find that Lovense made a sex toy for both men and women, and that they were designed to work together. The Lovense Max is what you’d expect from a standard male masturbation device, but it takes it a step further by incorporating a number of options you wouldn’t normally get with other devices.
Three Settings To Try with Lovense Max
What sold me on the Max was the versatility of use. It comes with three built-in settings that can be modified accordingly. The first is the simple fact that it electronically connects via Bluetooth to a smartphone or tablet device, allow you to control it at your whim from your fingertips.
Even as the most basic application, I had to give Lovense credit for this novel approach to masturbation. The second setting allows another user to control the device – we tried this out for the first time when my partner was away, and I gave over control of Max to her smartphone.
We were still able to talk to one another via the communication app that comes with the device (although in a pinch you can also use third-party apps like Skype with video capability), and I slipped Max over my cock as we began to talk dirty. She was able to control it in two ways: there was an air-pump and a vibration setting, each with three degrees of control that mimic the actual contractions and muscle movements of a vagina.
She particularly enjoyed having the control over my ejaculations, turning down the intensity when I was coming close, or flipping it back up when I needed an extra dose, and it was a fun way to tease each other to an orgasm. Especially with video apps, you can both watch each other rise to a climax, and for me nothing is more attractive than seeing and hearing her moan and beg for it as she opens for legs for me.
Interactive Sex At A Distance with Lovense Max
The third setting on Max was one that actually allows it to connect with Lovense’s other sex-toy for women, the Nora. When the two devices are synced up, the movement of my penis in Max, how fast I stroke it, how hard I push, all translates to movements via internet into her device. In this way, it was like we were actually fucking, and for her it’s even better because she can switch positions wherever she is and imagine me pounding her in the ass from behind or moving sensually inside her under the sheets.
When Max and Nora are connected through the internet interactively, it feels like actually fucking!
Likewise, her movements in Nora were sent to Max, so if she was getting more vigorous and sticking it deeper inside her I would feel a corresponding reaction – the air-pump in Max really imitates the way she could hold me inside her and squeeze.
Much More Practical And Versatile Than Other Toys
Again, I don’t have a lot of experience with sex toys, and Max has been my first – however, even just comparing the specs at a glance, it has a lot more abilities and options than conventional masturbators. Besides the fact it can connect to other sex toys, the amazingly life-like sensations of the air-pump and the vibrator together really enhance the stimulation.
Unlike the other main device for men, the Fleshlight, Max is also rechargeable – I will say that Lovense’s devices are more expensive than some of the other systems we looked at, but in terms of quality and what it is capable of doing, I’d have to say it’s worth it.
So far we haven’t had any problems with them, and I was happy to see that Lovense protects its users in a variety of ways, as well; first of all, the credit purchase doesn’t come up as anything suspicious on my bill, and second of all my partner and I were worried about the security in regards to the two-way communication app, but the more we read up on it the happier we were. The server is protect and secure, so there’s never any worry about your text messages or audio being overheard by anyone else.
Getting Off On Your Favorite Tune with Lovense Max
Another element of Max that helps to offset the cost of the device was another unusual aspect that I really enjoyed for those times when I wanted to stimulate myself on my own, or when my partner was unavailable. And that was an option to have your favorite music control the movements of Max – it might not be for everyone, but I’ve always been a musically inclined person. Imagining my lover on my lap grinding herself deep onto my cock while listening to my favorite song was really gratifying.
I think there is a lot of potential with this app for lovers to share in something novel and exciting, and overall Max has helped our relationship in more than a few ways. Now when we see each other again there isn’t any kind of awkwardness or aloofness – if anything, we’re even hornier for each other after having spent time apart, and both Max and Nora have become an integral part of our lives.