Making Long Distance Relationships Work
In our day and age, and especially with the way technology has both separated and connected us, one element that often becomes an issue, especially with couples, is making long-distance relationships work. Work and circumstances often take us in opposite directions, and this can often take a toll on the sort of intimacy that develops – and needs to maintained – between lovers.
That’s why it’s nice to know that Lovense is there to pick up the slack. The sex-toy producer and manufacturer is ahead of its time and has cornered the market on what they call ‘teledildonic’ devices – these allow both lovers to use their own masturbation devices in conjunction with the other person’s, allowing a two-way interaction that can fluidly mimic the sexual act.
For the woman, the Lovense Nora device may look like a standardized dildo, however it goes a bit further than that. The beauty of the built-in Bluetooth app is that you can sync it up to your lover’s device, even if you’re separated by countries or continents, and control it by long-distance remote control. This may sound a bit out there, but in fact even to the most Luddite-technology users among us (and I include myself in that statement) it was actually quite surprising how comfortable and enjoyable the experience was.
Easy Touch-And-Go Access Via Smartphone
The Nora is the latest in remote pleasuring, and it’s obvious that the designers have not only taken their own approach to the technology seriously by upgrading it, but have also taken the time to get feedback from their users as well. As it is, Nora works in two different ways: there is a Local Control and a Long Distance Control.
The Local Control works great if you’re by yourself – simply use your smartphone to access the app, which is also offered free of charge, and close your eyes as you imagine his rock hard cock pushing deep inside you.
The Local Control can also be used with two partners in close proximity; because Nora is controlled via smartphone, you can spice things up by handing off control to your partner who can control your pleasure from the other side of the room. If you start begging for something faster, the tap of a finger can leave you writhing into an orgasm.
The second setting is specifically designed for couples that are far apart. Once you’ve both downloaded the app, you can again ‘give off’ control of Nora to your partner, and they can control it from their phone. This can be even more sensual, and the experience is made all the more complete by the two-way communication included, or through a secondary set up like Skype, for instance. For my part, being alone and horny requires some in-depth dirty talk, and after asking him to fuck me harder – and his being able to turn up the “volume” on the stimulation of my pussy – it’s a good thing I don’t have a roommate.
What Is The Orgasm Like with Lovense Nora?
I’ve experimented with a number of dildos in the past, and though I’m not a professional or connoisseur by any means, I have had experiences that have been both satisfying and disappointing. The Lovense Nora has to be one of my better investments – granted, Nora is a bit more expensive than conventional sex-toys, however what you get out of it is more than worth it.
There are two controlling settings, both vibrate and rotation, which can be modified in terms of intensity, so whether I’m using it myself or having my partner control it, there’s a lot of experimentation involved. I don’t mind saying that I’ve come harder with Nora than I have with my other toys, and the easy-to-clean silicone casing is handy for those especially wet orgasms. I was also pleased to find that Nora was the perfect size for me, and even with deep penetration and pressure against the clitoris, I was able to keep it inside even during hard vaginal contractions on it.
Two Way Interface of Lovense Nora
Of course, the best part about Nora is the fact that it connects up to Lovense’s other sex-toy designed specifically for males. When the two devices are connected, every movement he makes into his device is translated into a corresponding movement in Nora. In this way, it really is like we’re actually fucking, and having Skype connected means we can both hear each other. As far as intimacy goes, this was the biggest boon for me. Actually being able to hear the breath of your lover, being able to anticipate his desires, and having all that be interpreted through Nora as he works harder really helped us to feel like we weren’t so far apart.
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Each session can be recorded, both in terms of audio and actual movements
Again, some of the things that make vibrators stand out or not has as much to do with their functionality as with their practicality. Aside from being easy to clean, there are a few aspects of Nora that have come in handy. For example, they have very secure connections – I was worried about using the in-board communication device included, but all of my texts and audio recordings are protected, so I don’t have to worry about accidentally sending it to someone else, or having anyone else spy on me. Additionally, there is a ‘playback’ setting: again, this might sound a bit far-fetched or weird, but after a few uses I got really used to it.
Easy to Set-Up
Record sessions with interactive movements and audio
Each session can be recorded, both in terms of audio and actual movements, and then replayed later – this became my go-to a number of times when my partner was either unavailable or when our schedules simply couldn’t meet up due to work obligations or other circumstances. The beauty of a pre-recorded sessions is also the ability to know exactly when you both came the last time, and your body amazingly adapts to the timing – it also makes it easy to experiment within the same session multiple times. I routinely found myself pushing my hips up against the tip just at the climax, and my orgasms left me shaking.
There is one more element which, although fun, I had a little harder time getting into. Nora has a ‘music control’ element which was a totally novel experience for me, and syncs up your favorite song to the movement. I think this addition is a great idea, but it depends heavily on your choice of music, and sometimes the music doesn’t always equate with a good match-up of sensations. Nevertheless, Nora has been outstanding in almost every regard, and I can’t wait to try the Local setting when my partner gets back!
